Excruciatingly painful... babies

Hi there!

Why do women willingly have children if labor is so excruciatingly painful? Add that with painful sex and tadaa: absolutely no reason to have babies. And please don't give me excuses like babies are cute and etc etc. If they like cute living things so much why not just adopt a pet? Don't forget that during the 9 months of pregnancy, they are somewhat immobile and very vulnerable. They probably can't do anything much to defend themselves when they are on their 3rd trimester (6-9th month). Talking about excellent targets of theft and hehehe... revenge.

And I thought that children especially those in their teenage years love to disobey their parents? So how can having children be a lifelong joy? You suffer so much when giving birth to them... raise them... they make you angry... make you sad... then they leave you and say bye bye! HA!

I've always wondered this: You know how some people like to say that mothers love their children a lot because they delivered them in excruciating pain, (I just love the word excruciating) especially when they say that mothers love their children more than their fathers? Do mothers love their children because they are their offspring or do they actually love them because of the pain?

Do we love our parents because they are our parents or do we love them because they've done a lot to us?