Sunday, May 25, 2008

Threatening someone with crippling financial blows won't make them love us forever

Someone posted the question
Marriage is a relic of the past. Threatening someone with crippling financial blows won't make them love us forever.


I've always thought that marriage is never about love, more towards utility - raising children, task specialization in the household, more permanent emotional support (because it has a bit more staying power compared to other social relationships), etc.

The financial blows are more of a matter of retribution. Something like "If one day you stop loving me, or don't want to work things out anymore..."

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